What would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you?
如果知道沒有人在旁邊指指點(diǎn)點(diǎn)，你會(huì)以一種的不同方式來(lái)做事嗎?
Truth be told, no one has the right to judge you. People may have heard your stories, but they can’t feel what you are going through; they aren’t living YOUR life. So forget what they say about you. Focus on how you feel about yourself, and do what you know in your heart is right.
事實(shí)上，沒有人有指責(zé)你的權(quán)利。人們或許聽過你的故事，但他們卻不能感同身受，因?yàn)槟愕纳钪粚儆谀阕约骸Ｋ酝羲麄儗?duì)你的指責(zé)。相信自己的感覺，做自己認(rèn)為正確的事。
1. Take care of yourself.
照顧好自己。
Your relationship with yourself is the closest and most important relationship you will ever have. If you don’t take good care of yourself, then you can’t take good care of others either; which is why taking care of yourself is the best selfish thing you can do.
你和自己最親近，是你所有關(guān)系中的重心。如果照顧不好自己，也就談不上照顧好別人，這就是為什么說(shuō)照顧好自己是你能做的最好的利己之事。
2. Do what you know is right, for YOU.
為了自己，去做自己認(rèn)為正確的事情。
Don’t be scared to walk alone, and don’t be scared to like it. Don’t let anyone’signorance, drama, or negativity stop you from being the best you can be. Keep doing what you know in your heart is right, for you. Because when you are totally at peace within yourself, nothing can shake you.
不要害怕獨(dú)行，不要因喜歡獨(dú)行而害怕。不要讓任何人的無(wú)知、惡搞或消極成為你達(dá)到巔峰的障礙。為了自己，堅(jiān)持做你內(nèi)心深處認(rèn)為正確的事情。因?yàn)楫?dāng)你內(nèi)心完全處于平和狀態(tài)時(shí)，沒有什么能讓你動(dòng)搖。
3. Follow your own unique path.
沿自己獨(dú)特的路走下去。
Every new day is a chance to change your life. Work on making life all that you want it to be. Work hard for what you believe, and keep your dreams big and your worries small. You never need to carry more than you can hold; just take it one day at a time. And while you’re out there making decisions instead of excuses, learning new things, and getting closer and closer to your goals, you should know that there are others out there, like me, who admire your efforts and are striving for greatness too.
新一天的到來(lái)為改變你的生活提供了契機(jī)。努力讓生活之路朝著你所希望的方向延伸。為信仰辛勤工作，夢(mèng)想遠(yuǎn)大思想放松。你永遠(yuǎn)不需要超負(fù)載工作，每天只需做力所能及的事。當(dāng)你下定決心，而不是找借口時(shí)，當(dāng)你學(xué)習(xí)新事物，且離目標(biāo)越來(lái)越近時(shí)，你要知道，像我一樣敬重你、并同樣在追求卓越的人大有人在。
4. Lock yourself away from the world and work on your goals.
遠(yuǎn)離外界的喧囂，鎖定既定目標(biāo)。
Dream big dreams, but realize that short term, realistic goals are the key to success. Success is directly connected with daily action. The way we spend our time defines who we are. Successful people keep moving, by doing small things every day that bring them a couple steps closer to their dream. They make mistakes along the way, but they don’t quit – they learn and press on.
擁有很大的夢(mèng)想，但要意識(shí)到切合實(shí)際的短期目標(biāo)才是通向成功的關(guān)鍵。成功與日常工作密切相關(guān)。我們利用時(shí)間的方式也就決定了我們的未來(lái)。不積跬步無(wú)以至千里，成功的人不斷前行，一步一步成就他們的夢(mèng)想。他們犯了錯(cuò)誤不退卻，而是總結(jié)經(jīng)驗(yàn)鞭策自己。
5. Adjust your goals and dreams as life changes.
隨時(shí)調(diào)整目標(biāo)與夢(mèng)想來(lái)適應(yīng)生活。
A great deal of pain in life comes from having a specific dream that you’ve fallen in love with, and when it doesn’t work out exactly as planned, you become angry that you now have to pursue a different path. If you want to tame your inner demons and make the most of life, you must not become rigidly attached to just one specific dream, and remain open to there being an even better, equally as happy path ahead. Life is unpredictable, but it provides plenty of opportunities to make dreams come true. Just don’t forget that sometimes taking a positive step forward requires you to slightly adjust your dreams, or plan new ones – it’s OK to change your mind or have more than one dream.
生活中的很多痛苦來(lái)自于擁有一個(gè)明確的、讓你無(wú)法自拔的夢(mèng)想，當(dāng)夢(mèng)想不能如期實(shí)現(xiàn)時(shí)，你會(huì)感到氣惱，不得不再去尋求另一種途徑以期實(shí)現(xiàn)夢(mèng)想。如果想讓自己心平氣和地過好每一天，你絕對(duì)不能固守一個(gè)特定的夢(mèng)想，要向更美好的夢(mèng)想敞開胸懷，正可謂幸福之路就在腳下。生活不可預(yù)知，但它卻提供各種機(jī)遇，使你夢(mèng)想成真。別忘記，有時(shí)對(duì)夢(mèng)想略做些調(diào)整或構(gòu)思一些新夢(mèng)想，是向前邁出積極一步的必要條件——改變想法或擁有不只一個(gè)夢(mèng)想不是件壞事情。
