Everyone has that period in which they find those who are close to them start to seem annoying .

每個人都會經歷這樣的時期：發現身邊那些親近的人開始變得有點煩了。

You suddenly realized that they’ve always been talking and talking.

你會突然意識到，長久以來他們就一直不停地在說啊說。

They never stopped.

他們從來就沒有停過。

Some of us get angry with them, thinking they are trying too hard to intervene in our lives.

我們中的有些人，會開始變得憤怒，覺得他們對我們的生活介入太多。

But don’t.

但是，請不要憤怒。

Only those who really care about you will bother saying so much to you.

只有那些真正關心我們的人才會費勁對我們說這么多。

It’s just that maybe they don’t know the right way to put it.

只是，他們可能并不知道正確的相處辦法。

Some of them push too hard because they care too much.

他們中有些人逼得太緊，那是因為他們太在乎。

Some of them speak too much because they worry about you too much.

他們中的有些人說得太多，那是因為他們太擔心你。

They do this because they love you.

他們這么做，都是因為愛你。

So don’t push them away.

所以，不要將他們拒于千里之外。

Just find a way to let them know what you truly want.

去找一個辦法告訴他們你真的想要的是什么吧。

And let them grow with you.

并且去讓他們和你一起成長。

That will make both of you happy.

那會讓你們雙方都過得幸福。

Believe me.

相信我。