One will make a lot of mistakes in his or her life.

一個人在一生中會犯很多錯誤。

This rule works for everybody.

這個道理對每個人都適用。

No one can avoid it.

沒有人可以避免。

But there are 3 mistakes you should do your best to avoid.

不過，有3中錯誤，你真的該盡可能去避免。

The first mistake is to constantly complain about things.

第一種錯誤是“一直在抱怨”。

Almost everybody keeps doing it because it seems like that complaining makes us feel good.

幾乎所有人都這么做，因為抱怨似乎會讓我們感覺很好。

But that’s only an illusion .

但這其實是一種假象。

People who get satisfied with only complaining stop doing anything that actually makes a difference. In the end, these people achieve nothing.

那些僅僅抱怨一下就滿足了的人，是不會去做真正有用的事情的。最終，他們將一事無成。

The second mistake is to constantly try to outweigh everybody around you.

第二種錯誤是“想把身邊的所有人都比下去”。

We can not survive this world alone.

我們沒有辦法只身一人在這個世界上幸存。

We have to cooperate with others because everybody’s own skills and time are limited.

我們必須和別人合作，因為一個人自身的技能和時間都是有限的。

If you take every pitiful chance to prove yourself better than others, you’ll only make yourself miserable in the end.

如果你非要抓住每個可悲的小機會去證明自己比身邊的人行，你最終只會把自己弄得慘不忍睹。

The third mistake is to be kind without any condition.

第三種錯誤是“無條件地善良”。

There is too much kindness in this world.

這個世界上的善良已經夠多了。

Some of them are worthless.

其中有一些是沒有價值的。

What this world doesn’t have enough is rationality.

這個世界缺的，是理智。

Kindness without reasoning is the same as evil.

無條件的善良與邪惡無異。

Have you make any mistake of these 3?

所以你有犯過這3個錯誤中的任何一個嗎?

If you have, now it’s the time to stop.

如果有，是時候停止了。