I have ever had abundant love experiences. My most impressive perception is that it is the best to be single.
我曾經(jīng)有過豐富的感情經(jīng)歷。最深的體會(huì)是，不愛的時(shí)候狀態(tài)最好。
When you love someone, all your attention is focused on him. You will be missing him, expecting to see him, worrying about him and feeling sad about him. In all, your whole heart has been dedicated to him without the least to yourself. All your happiness and sorrows stem from external factors, while all your giving and expectation will oftentimes result in desperation. The bigger your anticipation, the deeper your desperation.
當(dāng)愛一個(gè)人的時(shí)候，你的心思都在他的身上，想著他，盼著他，擔(dān)心是他，發(fā)愁是他，期望是他，失望是他，一顆心都在他人身上時(shí)，便沒有了自己。你的喜怒哀樂，都是因?yàn)橥庠诘脑颉６磺械母冻龊推诖玫降氖鞘Ｆ谕酱螅苍酱蟆?/p>
When you are single, you will concentrate on yourself. You will arrange your dressing and dietary in a healthy manner and do whatever you like without considering others’ views. Only at that time will you feel downright relieved mentally and live entirely for yourself.
不愛的時(shí)候，你的心思才收回到自己身上，為了自己的健康去合理地衣食住行，為了自己的美麗隨心所欲地打扮，想成什么樣就什么樣，想做什么人就做什么人，不必考慮他人的眼光。這時(shí)你才能感覺到徹底的心靈上的自由和解放，完全為自己的喜好而活著。
When you are single, your mindset is the most placid and calm. It is also the easiest time for you to get along with others without too much hospitality, doubt, sensitivity, anger, anxiety and sadness and illusion.
不愛的時(shí)候，心情最為平靜，心態(tài)最為平穩(wěn)，性情最為淡泊，與他人最好相處。沒有多余的熱情，沒有多疑的猜忌，沒有受傷的敏感，沒有變態(tài)的惱怒，沒有期望的焦慮，沒有失望的傷心，沒有不著邊際的幻想。
When you are single, you have more time to enrich your soul and ameliorate your life quality. You have more passion towards your friends and more free time to do your favorites. Moreover, you have more confidence to actualize yourself!
不愛的時(shí)候，你有更多的時(shí)間用于豐富自己的心靈，有更多的精力來用于改善自己的生活，有更多的熱情分散給朋友們，有更多的閑暇用于做你自己真正喜歡的事情，有更多的自信和篤定來塑造真正的自己。
Love, especially between man and woman, is the most complicated thing in the world. Once you get trapped into it, you will be persecuted by endless emotional troubles. The volatility of human’s thinking and life affairs also add more difficulty to keeping an eternal love. Instead of being terribly bothered by loving someone, why not love yourself more?
感情，尤其是男女之間的感情，是世上最復(fù)雜最難解的方程式。深陷其中的人，無一不被煩惱和困惑纏繞，人心的復(fù)雜多變，世事的紛繁無常，都增添了感情這道題的難度，與其深陷其中而永世不得超生，不如多一些關(guān)愛給自己……
