Different Strokes of Our Duties(不同的義務)

Life teaches us to live. To live， you have to exist. To exist， you should have a passport to this living world. Thanks to your parents， who brought you into this world.

Parents have taken care of us and satisfied all our needs. They helped whenever we were hungry， afraid or iii. They were always there by you， whenever you needed them. You almost assyned that they would always be there for you and never thought of how your life would be without them. But as you grow up， age also catches up with your parents and they need your help and support.

Man is a child first， after which he attains his youth. After youth he again goes through the second phase of childhood， also called as old age. This is the phase where everyone needs a cornfort of a sense of belonging and being taken care of. Woulch't we all expect the Same of security when we grow old? Even our parents are expecting us to be their caretaker， as they grow old.But they never make that obvious to us. They do their further duty by taking care of their grandchildren， paying e-bills， giving the clothes for laundry etc.

Isn't it unfair on our part that we aren't giving them what they need the most? It is our prime duty to take the very best care of them. It's our pay back time. Let's give the same sense of emotional security， care and love to our parents in their old age.

生活教我們如何生活。要生活，你首先必須存在。要存在，你應該有一張通往這個世界的護照。感謝你的父母，是他們把你帶到了這個世界。

父母照顧著我們，滿足我們所有的需要。無論何時我們餓了、害怕了或病了，他們都會幫助我們。無論何時你需要他們，他們總是在你身邊。你幾乎認為，他們總會在那里;從沒有想過，沒有他們你的生活會怎樣。但是，當你長大時，你的父母也在變老，他們需要你的幫助和支持。

人開始時是個小孩，然后他長成一個年輕人。青年期過后，他又經歷第二個兒童期，即老年期。這個時期，每個人都需要一種歸屬感，需要照顧。我們變老時，不也會期盼同樣的安全感嗎?我們的父母也希望他們年老時我們會照顧他們。但他們從不向我們明確地說出來。他們會盡更多的義務，照顧利，子孫女，付電子賬單的費用，把衣服拿去洗衣店，等等。

我們沒有給他們最需要的東西，這是不是不公平?盡量照顧好他們是我們的首要義務。是該我們回報的時候了。讓我們在父母年老時給他們同樣的情感安全感、關心和愛。